Monday, May 11, 2026

Opalite - Creating My Own Joy (April 2026 Recap)

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I chose the word Opalite for 2026 because I love the meaning so much.  The word is the title of a song by Taylor Swift, and it means creating your own joy or happiness even when things aren’t going your way.  Life is full of ups and downs, so I thought this would be the perfect word to keep at the forefront of my mind as a constant reminder that there’s always something I can do to lift my own spirits.  And this manufactured joy doesn’t have to come from grand gestures or big events… most of the time it’s made in the small, everyday details. 

April went by in the blink of an eye, and I was terrible at documenting things.  My list won’t be as long today, but only because I’m going off of memory since I barely took notes.  Here are some of the things I did in April to create my own joy…

 

-       We kicked off the month at Disney World, more specifically, Magic Kingdom, the most magical park of all!  And even though it wasn’t technically my birthday yet (it was four days later), I decided to wear a birthday pin a few days early just to make the day even more joyful!  I received tons of well wishes from cast members, characters, and other Disney visitors and it just made the day even more special.

-       My favorite restaurant in all of Disney World (maybe anywhere!!) is Be Our Guest in Magic Kingdom.  The main eating area is an exact replica of the ballroom from Beauty and the Beast (my all-time favorite Disney movie since I was little), and it is so magical.  However, there are two other rooms in which you could be seated for your meal, and I was so bummed on our last trip because we weren’t seated in the main ballroom.  This year, I asked Brian if he would request our seats to be in the main ballroom for my birthday, and it’s Disney World, so of course, they honored our request.  We had some of the best seats in the house, and it just made my entire trip!  The food was amazing, the drinks were delicious, and our view of the ballroom – PERFECTION.

-       The day after my birthday, I ate leftover Funfetti cake for breakfast because… why not?!

-       One evening, we had the most stunning sunset, so I paused what I was doing, and I spent the next 15 minutes in the back yard just soaking it up.  I cannot stress enough how grounding it is to get outside, touch grass, hear the wind rustling through the trees, and marvel at the vastness of the sky. 

-       One day while tidying the kitchen, I was putting up some of my essential oils, and instead of just shelving them and being done, I took the time to look through my collection, pausing to open each of the bottles and smell each of the scents – lime, peppermint, cinnamon, bergamot, tangerine, frankincense, jade lemon – such a simple thing to do, but I enjoyed it so much.

-       I happened to stumble upon these icon glasses that just happened to be the perfect lookalikes for some that sold out months ago, and I purchased them instantly.  I’ve been using them for my cocktails all month and goodness, they just make me so happy!  I love a festive cup or mug!

-       Brian and the kids got me the Disney Inside Out Lego Brickheads for my birthday, so after Jacob put them together for me, I displayed them on my desk.  They’re so dang cute, and I love seeing them all day while I work. 

-       I added a few new things to the bulletin board over my desk – all things that bring me joy, of course!   

-       I added several new books to my hold list at the library, and I’m finally reaping the benefits now that my turn has arrived to have several of them!  There is just something so delightful about a big stack of new-to-me books to read!

-       I allowed myself to take naps as I felt the need, guilt free!  I think I took five or six in April. 

-       I went on lots of evening walks and those pretty much always bring me joy.

-       I have been devouring The Swiftie and the Scholar podcast because it is SO GOOD.  I have been a writer since I was old enough to hold a pencil, so hearing someone break down Taylor Swift’s lyrics from a literary standpoint has been fascinating to me.  Hearing someone else’s take on what each song means is wild because there are so many things I haven’t even considered about certain lyrics and the meanings behind them.  Tay’s writing is always ambiguous, and that’s what makes a great artist in my opinion – because her lyrics can be interpreted so many ways, allowing everyone to relate to them in their own personal way.

-       I snoozed an extra time several days in April… I hate early wakeups and at this point in the school year, I’m completely over it, so it brought me a lot of joy to get that extra nine minutes of sleep each day that I snoozed.  Lol.

-       Brian bought all the ingredients and perfected the cocktail that we had at Hollywood Studios that was so delightful, so we can now make it at home, and we enjoyed several in April.  ;o)  (Recipe is coming eventually to the blog!)

 

And that was April, even though I know I’m probably forgetting a lot! 

Happy Monday, y’all!


Friday, May 8, 2026

Five on Friday - May Goals

Today I’m recapping my April goals and listing my May goals.  As always, I’m using a Y for YES and N for NO to indicate whether or not I accomplished my goals. 

 

April Goals

Personal Health / Wellness / Fitness / Beauty

Y  Be intentional about creating joy every day.

Y  Meditate and read devotional every day.

Y  Continue Bible study.

Y  Finish Lent study.

Y  Visit with upper cervical chiropractor.

Y  Visit with therapist.

Y  Taper my vertigo medicine 1/4 pill per day to 1/4 pill every other day.

Y  Walk 28 miles.

 

Appointments / Meetings / Other Requirements

Y  Attend monthly Home and School Advisory Board meeting.

Y  Jacob finish all Confirmation tasks and paperwork.

Y  Jacob register for classes for next school year.

Y  Jacob complete all service hours for the school year.

Y  Olivia attend additional dance classes in preparation for her recital.

 

Home / Organization / Planning

N  Clean out kitchen. – Well, I put a big dent in it, but I didn’t get it done.

Y  Set up new drawer organizer in kitchen.

Y  Deep clean blinds in front room.

Y  Deep clean all windows in the house.

Y  Change out two light fixtures upstairs.

Y  Work on reorganizing List Master app.

Y  Update 50 album artwork in iTunes.

Y  Back up all photos on computer to hard drives and Amazon Drive.

N  Put down new rug in living room.

Y  Start prepping for Olivia’s recital.

Y  Start prepping for Mother’s Day.

Y  Wash car.

 

Blog / Social Media

Y  Work on end of year blog post.

Y  Start sharing Disney recaps.

Y  Complete one blog post for summer break.

 

Fun Stuff!

Y  Help decorate the church for Easter.

Y  Celebrate Easter.

Y  Have our annual Easter egg hunt.

Y  Celebrate my birthday.

Y  Attend parent night at Olivia’s dance studio.

Y  Have dinner with my girls.

Y  Jacob attend his spring retreat.

Y  Go to a hockey game with friends.

Y  Have a poker night with friends.

Y  Go to an arts in the park event that my friend, Jessica, is organizing.

N  Go on a date with B. – We have some catching up to do on our dates.

N  Purchase and plant herbs and flowers for the back porch.

Y  Read 1 book.


Summary

37 tasks accomplished

4 tasks not accomplished

 


Monthly Stats


Books Read: 1

    Dear Debbie by Freida McFadden  

Meditation Days: 30

Rings Closed on Apple Watch:

    Move Ring: 16

    Exercise Ring: 18

    Stand Ring: 30

Workouts Completed: 24

    Barre: 0

    Core Training: 0

    Dance: 0

    High Intensity Interval Training: 0

    Hiking: 0

    Mixed Cardio: 2

    Outdoor Run: 0 (0.00 miles)

    Outdoor Walk: 13 (28.04 miles)

    Pilates: 0

    Pool Swim: 0 (0 yards)

    Stair Stepper: 2

    Strength Training: 7

    Yoga: 0

Time Spent Working Out: 10:35:10 (hours:minutes:seconds)

Calories Burned During Workouts: 2,393

Total Steps This Month: 232,814 (Average: 7,760 / day)

 

Pictures of My Successes

Apple Watch ring


Decorating the church for Easter

Decorating the church for Easter

Celebrating Easter

Girls Night

Cleaned out part of the kitchen

Hockey game with friends

Parent night at Olivia's dance studio

Arts in the Park

Celebrating my birthday

New light fixtures

Poker night



Now for the May goals… 

May Goals

Personal Health / Wellness / Fitness / Beauty

Be intentional about creating joy every day.

Meditate and read devotional every day.

Continue Bible study.

Visit with upper cervical chiropractor.

Visit with therapist.

Go to annual checkup with OBGYN.

Get permanent upper retainer.

Taper my vertigo medicine 1/4 pill per day to 1/4 pill every three days.  (Maybe??)

Start doing yoga again.

Try a Tai Chi workout.

Walk 28 miles.

 

Appointments / Meetings / Other Requirements

Attend monthly Home and School Advisory Board meeting.

Assist with Teacher Appreciation Week at the school.

Olivia attend additional dance classes in preparation for her recital.

Kids go to orthodontist checkups.

Get SUV serviced.

Attend Jacob’s Confirmation practice.

Jacob receive Confirmation.

Olivia dance in her recital!

 

Home / Organization / Planning

Clean out kitchen.

Clean out primary bathroom.

Clean out kids’ bathroom.

Clean out guest bathroom.

Work on reorganizing List Master app.

Update 50 album artwork in iTunes.

Put down new rug in living room.

Purchase and plant herbs and flowers for the back porch.

Clean makeup brushes.

Finish prepping for Olivia’s recital.

Finish prepping for Mother’s Day.

Prep and pack for beach trip.

 

Blog / Social Media

Work on end of year blog post.

Complete one blog post for summer break.

Decrease weekly posts from four to three for summer break.

 

Fun Stuff!

Celebrate Mother’s Day.

Have dinner with my girls.

Kids wrap up their 9th and 6th grade years!

Have a poker night with friends.

See Dave Matthews Band in concert!

See the Beauty and the Beast Broadway show!

GO TO THE BEEEEACH!

Go on a date with B.

Read 4 books.

 

Friday Funnies






On the Blog This Week

What I Ordered from Amazon in April 2026

Our Week – The One with an Awards Ceremony, a Retainer Update, and a Sleepover

What I Wore - April 2026

 


Previous Monthly Goals Posts


Happy Friday, y’all!

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Wednesday, May 6, 2026

What I Wore - April 2026

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Y’all, we have had the longest winter and spring that I can ever remember, and as I type this on May 4, it was 46 degrees this morning!  We live in Georgia.  We do not see temps in the 40’s past late March or very early April, typically.  And there have been very few days that I’ve had a chance to wear shorts this spring so far.  Normally, we are well into the 80s and even 90s this time of year, so it has been refreshing, yet odd, having this actual season of spring this year. 

That said, outfits were all over the place in April.  I wore shorts, sweatshirts, tanks, boots, jackets, and pretty much everything in between.

Here’s what I wore, and as always, I’ll be sure to link what I can under each of the pictures.  Also, please excuse my first OOTD picture… I didn’t get a good one in Magic Kingdom of myself other this one that was taken at night.  

April 1 - Princess Eras Tour Shirt // Skirt // Tennis Shoes

April 2 - 

April 3 - 

April 3 (evening) - 

April 4 - Jeans

April 5 - 

April 6 - Jeans

April 7 - Leggings // Tennis Shoes

April 8 - Leggings // Tennis Shoes

April 9 - Jeans

April 10 - Tennis Shoes

April 11 - 

April 11 (evening) - Shoes
April 12 - 

April 13 - Leggings // Tennis Shoes

April 14 - 

April 15 - 

April 16 - Tank

April 17 - Shoes

April 18 - Support Live Music Tee // Shoes

April 19 - 







April 20 - Birth Year Shirt // Leggings // Shoes

April 21 - Leggings // Tennis Shoes

April 22 - Tennis Shoes

April 23 - 

April 24 - Shoes

April 25 - Top // Jeans

April 26 - Shoes

April 27 - Tank // Skirt // Tennis Shoes

April 28 - Tank // Skirt

April 29 - Jeans

April 30 - Leggings // Tennis Shoes


Happy Wednesday, y’all!