Oh 2023, you started
out tough (and a little scary, to be honest), you continued to be tough, and
you ended tough. It was a hard
year… one of the roughest ever for me, personally, and I’m honestly not sad to see
this one go. Yes, the good times were
plentiful, but my gosh, the tough stuff was abundant and constant this year. There were many things that I shared here on
the blog like my constant battle with vertigo for the entire second half of the
year (that is STILL present as I type this on December 27 – UGH) and Olivia’s
unexplained illnesses throughout the year, and there were many things that I haven’t
and won’t be sharing here on the blog.
My brother and my dad always chide me when I condemn an entire year just because of the bad stuff that happened throughout, but y’all, this year was FULL of crap, honestly, and it was HARD. While I’m not full-on condemning it, it will definitely go down in history as one of my least favorites. Aside from 2020, I don’t think I’ve ever been so excited to say goodbye to a year and welcome a new one. I’m looking forward to a fresh start, and I’m so grateful that it’s just right around the corner. I’m praying with every fiber of my being that 2024 is better than 2023.
Shall we recap? As always, I’m recapping the good and the bad, and I’m starting with the bad so we can end on a high note. My gosh, was there a lot of bad this year, and the stuff listed below isn’t even all of it…
The Bad…
It was the year that I had my first cancer scare ever. My doctor found a tumor at my routine mammogram/ultrasound appointment, and we had to wait two agonizing weeks to get a biopsy and wait for results. Thankfully, it was benign, but boy, was that a rough start to the new year! It's unsettling to know that there is a tumor in my breast, benign or not, but the doctor says that there's no need to remove it since it's benign.
It was the year that we also started off with another bout of Covid for Olivia (thankfully mild, though!) and a random non-Covid sickness for Jacob. While not a big deal in the scheme of things, it all happened right in the middle of my cancer scare, so that compounded my stress.
It was the year
that our garbage disposal, kitchen sink faucet, and garage door all broke
within the first three weeks of the year.
Compared to the other stuff that happened this year, it almost seems
petty to even mention it here, but again, it all happened in January while it
was already figuratively “pouring” over here, so it wasn’t fun to have to deal
with in the midst of other trials.
It was the year that the kids spent most of the month of January sick, but we were just grateful that it didn't happen in December when we had so many fun things lined up.
It was the year
that Olivia suffered from some weird stomach/rash/fatigue illness for the whole
month of February. And then again for a couple of days in November. And then again for a week in December. We're still not sure what it was, and it's frustrating to not have answers.
It was the year
that we got bad news about my cousin's cancer.
It was the year that we lost Brian’s cousin to cancer.
It was the year that my father-in-law was diagnosed with cancer. Thankfully, his is slow-growing, it has not spread, he was treated with radiation, and he is going to be just fine.
It was the year that we had to say goodbye to Jacob’s beloved music teacher as he took a new job. Jacob was so very crushed, but we are grateful for the year that we had with him.
It was the year that I was diagnosed with Raynaud’s Syndrome where the blood drains out of my
fingers unexpectedly. It freaked me out
the first time it happened, and it’s very unsettling every time it happens, but
thankfully it’s not dangerous most of the time.
It was the year that Brian was in a car accident. Thankfully, he was okay, but his vehicle was totaled.
It was the year
that my anxiety ramped up again after months of and months of having it under control.
It was the year that I started experiencing short/mild bouts of depression in addition to the anxiety. I’ve experienced anxiety for the better part of my life, and after feeling “too much” for so many years, it scared the hell out of me to feel “too little” when I was going through it. I’m sure it’s from all of the things that happened this year, as it started shortly after a lot of things piled up in a short amount of time. That paired with an extended period of dreary weather was just a recipe for disaster for me, apparently. I’m grateful that mine wasn’t ever severe, and my heart goes out to any of you who have to deal with depression in any way, shape, or form.
It was the year that I randomly woke up one morning with vertigo, and it ended up staying with me for the rest of the year… it’s still here as I type this. It was awful for the first few days… so awful that I could barely get out of bed. I couldn’t walk straight, I could barely sit up, and I couldn’t drive for four weeks. I had debilitating nausea for the first few days, and I’ve struggled to do daily activities since then. Therefore, the last half of the kids’ summer break ended up being awful because we were stuck at home. The beginning of their school year was also disrupted because I couldn’t drive, so we had to rely on my Mom and Brian to drive us around everywhere. (I thank God for our village every single day.) Getting proper care for it was horrible, too, because every doctor I needed to see had a long wait, so it was a very long, drawn-out, frustrating process that ended up in ungodly amounts of money spent and… no answers. I ended up going to acute care, having a bunch of testing done with my ENT doctor, having a VNG, trying occupational therapy, doing lots of vestibular physical therapy, seeing my primary care doctor, having an MRI of my brain and neck, seeing a cardiologist, having an echocardiogram and an EKG, having testing done on my carotid arteries, seeing a neurologist, and getting a CT angiogram only to be told by the neurologist (my last and final hope) that I, “will just have to wait for it to go away on its own.” It has been nearly six months as I type this, and I’m terrified at this point that it may never go away.
It was the year that we had a cancer scare for another close family member. Said family member had to wait a long time for answers, and had to have lots of tests run, but thankfully, everything turned out to be okay. It was a long scary couple of months, though.
It was the year that I got my first traffic citation in more than a decade… and it was because my registration was expired because the county tax commissioner failed to send my renewal notice. Sigh.
It was the year that one of Jacob’s teachers found out that she has stage four pancreatic cancer that has spread to her liver. She is obviously taking leave from the school to fight it and we are still praying for her daily.
It was the year that Brian injured BOTH of his knees at the same time playing tennis. Thankfully, it was nothing major, but he was on the struggle bus for quite some time. We think he sprained/pulled both of his MCLs.
It was the year
that I got another flat tire… right after having four brand-new tires put on put
on my car. And it wasn’t able to be patched…
I needed a whole new tire. And Brian nor my dad were able to help rescue me as they were both down with injuries. Yeesh. A minor
inconvenience in the scheme of life, but it’s become a running joke now to see
just how many flat tires I can have, so I thought it should be mentioned here. It was also a MAJOR unexpected cost after a long
line of other unexpected costs for the year, so it was like very expensive icing
on a very expensive cake that doesn’t even taste good. Haha.
It was the year
that Matthew Perry passed away… he was my favorite actor on my favorite show of
all-time and losing him was like losing a friend. He was also my cousin’s wife’s brother, so it
literally hit close to home as we watched our family members grieve his loss.
It was the year that one of my best friends went through the heartache of infertility, finally getting pregnant, receiving heartbreaking news about her pregnancy, and then ultimately losing her baby. Walking through that with her… there really are no words.
It was the year that we found out our sweet baby girl, Maui, has stage one kidney disease. She just turned 14 earlier this month, and we’re praying that we still have some good years (months?) left with her.
It was the year that one of my aunts and one of my uncles were both diagnosed with dementia (and one with Parkinson's, too) and both have declined rapidly.
It was the year that my beloved second home (the movie theater that I worked at for my first job and had some of my favorite years of my life) closed down forever. Again, not as big of a deal as the other things, but just one more thing that broke my heart. :o(
It was the year that Georgia lost to Bama by three in the SEC Championship game, crushing our hopes to have a Threepeat in the National Championship Game. Not nearly as horrible as the other things going on, but definitely a HUGE bummer for our household.
It was the year that five of my close friends and family members lost their family pets that they’d had forever, and another just found out her dog has cancer.
There was just so much sadness and loss this year, y’all, so many unexpected and unexplained illnesses in our little family of four, so many unexpected expenses with Brian totaling his car, other things breaking, and the loads and loads of medical bills we’ve accumulated, so many illnesses with family members, and so. much. cancer.
I mean, honestly.
I am willing 2024 to be better.
Now to end with the good stuff…
The Good…
It was the year that Georgia won the National Championship for the second year in a row! We are so proud of our Dawgs!
It was the year
that I got braces!
It was the year
that we celebrated our sweet girl’s 9th birthday!
It was the year
that we celebrated my Mama Cass’s 94th birthday!
It was the year
that Brian’s cousin, Erik, and his wife came for a visit.
It was the year
that Olivia got student of the month at her music school.
It was the year
that Jacob was inducted into the National Junior Honor Society! We are so proud of him!
It was the year
that we went on 6 weekend getaways and day trips.
Huntsville, AL – By the Numbers / Trip
Atlanta Braves Game/Museum of Illusions – Atlanta, GA
Georgia vs. Kentucky Game & Putt
Shack – Athens, GA & Atlanta, GA
Georgia vs. Missouri Football Game &
Shakey Graves Concert – Athens, GA
Dave Matthews Band – Alpharetta, GA
Phillip Phillips – Atlanta, GA
Dinner and Paul Thorn Concert Double Date Night
Triple Date Trivia Night for Jeannine’s Birthday
Dinner and GP-38 Concert Triple Date Night
Brewery Date Night with 10 Other Couples
Dinner with Fahed and Connor/Phillip Phillips Concert
Georgia vs. Missouri Football Game/Shakey Graves Concert
It was the year
that I spent loads of time with dear friends.
Dinner and Paul Thorn Concert Double Date Night
Triple Date Trivia Night for Jeannine’s Birthday
Dinner and GP-38 Concert Triple Date Night
Happy Hour and Dinner with the Girls
Brewery Date Night with 10 Other Couples
Flower Arrangement Girls Night
Girls Night at the Mexican Restaurant
Homecoming Alumni Social and Football Game
Girls Night at the Thai Restaurant
Georgia vs. Kentucky Game with Family
Georgia vs. Missouri Game with Family
Friendsgiving with My Girls at My House
Girls Christmas Brunch and Ornament Exchange at Jessica’s House
Olivia’s Birthday Party at the Trampoline Park
St. Patrick’s Day Party at Jeannine and James’s
Callaway Gardens Day Trip with Jeannine and the Boys
Poker Night at Khristina and Ian's House
Downtown Spring Concert with Jeannine and Khristina and Families
Dinner at Amanda and Josh’s House
Poker Night / Foam Party at Jeannine and James’s
Pool Day with Khristina and Noah
Impromptu Lunch Date with Jeannine, Heather, and the Kids
Impromptu Playground Evening with Jeannine and the Boys
Playdate at Khristina and Noah's House
Playdate with Khristina and Noah at Our House
Olivia's First Time Spending the Night Away
Lemonade Stand with Mack and Buckley
Bowling with Mack, Buckley, and Noah
Arcade with friends for Jacob’s Birthday
Savannah's Birthday Pool Party
Play Date with Noah at Our House
Poker Night at Khristina and Ian's House
Poker Night at Jeannine and James’s House
Spirit Halloween Store with Friends
All-School Football Game Tailgate
WJ and Cami Sleepover at Our House
Playground/Picnic Lunch Date with Friends
Pumpkins at Callaway with Friends
Trick-or-Treating with Friends
Taylor Swift Eras Tour Movie with Friends
Poker Night at Khristina and Ian’s House
Hangout with WJ and Savannah at Our House
Cookie Decorating at Jeannine and James’ House
Fantasy In Lights with the Whole Family
Extended Family Christmas Barbecue
It was the year that I continued volunteering a ton at the kids’ school, serving on their Home & School Advisory Board, serving on the new playground committee, chairing and co-chairing several events and fundraisers (Mother/Son Dance, Father/Daughter Dance, Grandparents Day, Reindeer Run), serving as room mom for Olivia’s 3rd grade class, assisting with Teacher Appreciation Week, serving as room mom for Olivia's 4th grade class and Jacob's 7th grade class, and also continuing in my role as part of the school’s alumni affairs team.
My Workout Routine – How I Stay Fit, My Favorite Workout Items, and More
On Anxiety and Going Through a Difficult Season
The Four Supplements I Take Every Day to Feel and Look My Best, One of Which Has Been Life-Changing
Oh, the Places You'll Go! Keepsake Book for Your Kiddos
The Easiest Way to Organize All of Your Recipes
The Most Efficient Way to Meal Plan and Grocery Shop
House Cleanout – End of March Update
My Bible Journaling Experience + the Supplies I Use
A Simple Way to Make Food Festive and Fun for Halloween
Easy, Affordable Christmas Tree Craft for Kids Class Christmas Parties
And now I’ll leave you with my top five most viewed posts that were written in 2023. Before I get to these, a few notes…
These are the top five most viewed posts that were written in 2023… all of my most viewed posts of all-time were written in previous years.
I do still have several old posts making the rounds on Pinterest, and several new ones that picked up speed this year.
Income was steady yet again which is exactly what I’m aiming for these days as I haven’t had quite as much time to dedicate to my blog since I’ve taken on so many volunteer responsibilities this year.
Y’all LOVE my Amazon purchases posts and my weekly recaps. Those are always some of my most viewed, but this year none of them made the Top 5.
Without further ado, here are my top five posts that were published in 2023…
F I V E – Thankful for Answered Prayers
A little heart-to-heart about my tumor / breast cancer scare at the beginning of the year.
F O U R – Unique Gift Ideas for Taylor Swift Fans AKA Swifties
This one is working its way around Pinterest, and thanks to that, it was my fourth most viewed post of the year even though it was just published in October.
T H R E E – Four Taylor Swift Eras Tour Outfit Ideas
Apparently all of you love Taylor as much as I do, and because of that, this was my third most-viewed post of the year!
T W O – Oh, the Places You’ll Go! Keepsake Book for Your Kiddos
This is another post that has been making the Pinterest rounds making it my second most-viewed post of the whole year.
O N E – Easy Summer Lunch Ideas for Kids
And finally, this post has been making the rounds on Pinterest, making it my top-viewed published post of 2023 by far!
And just for fun, my Instagram Top 9 photos/reels from the year…
2024, we are welcoming you with open arms, and I pray that you treat us with kindness, happiness, good health, and answered prayers.
Amen.
It certainly was one really stressful year, but looking back on it you spent lots of time with friends and family and at concerts making wonderful memories as well. Perhaps all the bad stuff did help you remember to make the most of every day. I hope 2024 treats you better!
ReplyDeleteYES! Focusing on the good is exactly what I want to do better in 2024! And thank you! I hope so, too.
DeleteI agree that it was the worst year following 2020 and honestly it's only been since October that so many bad things have happened for me personally! It's crazy how many people have had cancer or cancer scares lately. I'm glad you have so many good things to remember as well.
ReplyDeleteGosh, when you wrote out all the bad things that happened, it really is mind-blowing. I hope that 2024 brings peace and comfort to your family and extended circle too.
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