While I sure
miss the leg rolls, the coos, and that sweet newborn scent, not having babies in the house can be
all kinds of amazing as well! We now
have two potty-trained kids so – no more diapers! And not having to carry a diaper bag in
addition to my purse has been the best
these last couple of weeks… my shoulders and arms are thanking me. On top of those things, we now have two kids
that can (mostly) communicate their needs, (mostly) entertain themselves if
need be, and they (mostly) don’t need to be watched every. single. darn. second. Plus, they’re actually lots of fun to be around
(mostly).
I guess you
could say that it’s liberating no longer having a baby in the house. It does sadden me to know that those days are
behind us, and I know that the little things in life will be forgotten all too
quickly, so I want to capture them here in this little space of mine, so I can preserve
them for years to come.
O N E – Having a Changing Table
That little
changing table area on Olivia’s dresser… we officially took it down a couple of
weekends ago and it has been replaced with a picture frame and an Elsa
pillow. We haven’t used it in a long
time – months actually – but for some reason I just couldn’t bring myself to
get rid of it until now. And it’s still killing me.
T W O – Having Other Baby Gear in the
House
Last year we
sold most of the kids’ old baby gear, but I had been holding on to the Pack N
Play and the kids’ shared high chair.
Both have been collecting dust for some weeks, months if we’re talking about the high chair. Last weekend I finally decided to put both up
for sale and wouldn’t you know that the Pack N Play was snatched up immediately,
with a possible sale for the high chair already as well. We will be sending them both to their new
owners soon and I can hardly stand it because once those items are gone, all of
the baby gear will officially be gone as well.
T H R E E – Olivia’s Outfit Flat-Lays
Olivia has
always been extremely independent, and she has been dressing herself for nearly
a year. She does not let me assist her,
therefore, she puts everything on herself.
During these last few weeks she has taken to laying her clothes out on
the floor before she puts them on. And
she has to do that. If you don’t let her lay them out, she throws
a massive tantrum and refuses to get dressed.
As soon as
she pulls them out of the closet and drawers, she meticulously lays out each
item and even takes care to spread them out so there are no wrinkles. It’s like she’s doing her very own flat-lays! Haha.
Maybe we have a future blogger on our hands?!
And for the
record, I know what you’re thinking…
F O U R – Jacob Wears His Sunglasses…
in the Dark?
Y’all, I know
I’ve mentioned this on here before, but it just never gets old. Jacob is not a morning person. And he hates bright lights when he first
wakes up. Or ever for that matter. So I kid you not, each morning when I come
down the stairs, Brian, Jacob, and Olivia are all sitting around the breakfast
table in complete blackness, and Jacob is almost always wearing
sunglasses. I mean, I have no idea how
he can even see anything because I certainly can’t see anything and I’m not
even wearing sunglasses!
F I V E – Raspberry Fingers
You guys may
have already seen this on Instagram, but I had to mention it here to keep it
safely stored in the blog archives.
We eat loads
of fruit in our house so we always have lots of different things on hand –
strawberries, blueberries, blackberries, grapes, raspberries. When it comes to raspberries, both kids must
be served exactly five because they both put one on each of their little
fingers and wave them around. As they
get eaten, they shout how many are left (FIVE!!…
FOUR!!… THREE!!... THREE, MOMMY!!!!… TWO!…DADDY, TWO!!... ONE!… ZERO!), and
by golly, you better be paying attention because they will shout over and over
again until you listen.
I know all
too soon they’ll be eating raspberries just like everyone else, so this is
something that I never want to forget.
Olivia |
Jacob |
S I X – Olivia and the Bread Crust
Every morning
when I make Jacob’s lunch for school, I cut the bread crusts off and pile them
up on a paper towel right next to the sandwich.
Every morning Olivia walks over, grabs the whole pile of crust, and then
proceeds to carry it around with her for the rest of the morning until she has
eaten them all. Girl loves crust! Most little kids won’t even eat it attached
to the sandwich, but she loves it completely by itself. It makes me laugh every time.
S E V E N – Jacob’s Sleeping Bag
For several months,
Jacob was waking up in the middle of the night (occasionally) and he was creeping
into our room and climbing into bed with us.
Lately, it has tapered off, and instead, it is now Olivia who is creeping
in during the night. Since there’s not
enough room for four in our bed, we decided to lay out Jacob’s sleeping bed on
the floor in our room, so when he does come in, he can have a comfy and warm
place to sleep. It rarely happens these
days, but I love that his little sleeping bag is a permanent fixture in our
room right now. It may be an eyesore,
but gosh, I’m going to miss it one day!
What are some
things that you are going to miss?
*Linking up with Jessi's Design and Going the Distance for What's Hap-"Pinning" Wednesday and Jen, Leslie, and Jessica for Remembering the Little Things.
I love the raspberry fingers! Olivia laying her clothes out is too cute. She just wants to make sure she looks good the next day. :)
ReplyDeleteThese are really sweet. Olivia laying out her clothes cracks me up - too funny!
ReplyDeleteI agree with the other girls--love the flat lays! You may have a future fashion blogger on hand!
ReplyDeleteSarah at MeetTheShaneyfelts
I don't like right lights in the mornings either. Ahhh raspberry fingers, I still do it occasionally, lol. The sweet moments of life that we leave behind in the blink of an eye. I love how your heart swells with the sweet things in life, you're so precious!!
ReplyDeleteIt is kind of shocking walking in the bathroom in the morning and flipping on the lights after being in darkness for eight hours! Haha. I guess Jacob just has to eeeease on into it!
DeleteInstead of raspberry fingers, it is olive fingers here. :)
ReplyDeleteRaspberry fingers is so cute!! Those little
ReplyDeleteHands! How cute that Olivia lays her clothes out. Stylish girl!
So sweet. I keep thinking I am going to miss Emily's obsession with Minnie... but it hasn't gone anywhere. True story, I STILL have our pack n' play. It is the only thing I kept but I kept thinking if someone comes over with a baby or I babysit, it might be handy to have. I think it has only been used 3 times :P.
ReplyDeleteAwwww I know the feeling as I put away old clothes! It's just too much! When I saw your fb post about the pack and play I could tell it made you sad. It seems with each loss there is a new gain that fills our hearts....raspberry fingers or sunglasses in the dark 😉 Love this list!
ReplyDeleteOh I totally know how you're feeling!! I actually have a similar post planned. It's so sad letting go of all the baby things, it officially mens you're on to the next chapter of your lives. But I'm sure it will be a great one so it's Ok, I guess, who am I kidding, I'm always going to want another little baby! LOL
ReplyDeleteWhen my kids turned 3 and 5 these were both such milestone birthdays for me as a mom. I must say, I am really loving all the independence my kids are gaining and how I can do things and they are entertaining themselves but still need me. I loved this post because this will be a great post for you to look back on and remember.
ReplyDeleteIt really is nice to have independent kiddos again after almost six years of caring for someone every single waking second. Plus, I love that we can talk about their days now around the dinner table!
DeleteI'm both looking forward to getting rid of the baby gear (because space!) and dreading it (because no more babies!) at the same time. I love that Olivia lays out her outfits! I'm impressed with her style, btw. When Mila dresses herself without me trying to point her in the right direction, she usually looks like a hot mess, lol. Loved reading these things. Thanks for joining our link up!!
ReplyDeleteAwe, this is such a sweet post, Lindsay! I can't even begin to imagine how hard it is to let go of the fact that you know longer have baby babies in your home. But like you mentioned, I bet it's so nice to not have to carry everything and the kitchen sink when you go out. Loved reading this, your family is just precious. Literally #familygoals <3
ReplyDeletexo, Lily
Beauty With Lily
These are just the sweetest. I know I am going to miss it when we have to get rid of all the baby stuff. I get sad when we donate or sale their clothes. Love the sunglasses in the dark. Just the cutest.
ReplyDeleteLife sure does fly! We need to find a way to make it slow the heck down, friend! I miss having a baby in the house as well. I keep seeing videos of Mason as a baby and my heart just aches! Love the raspberry fingers!!
ReplyDeleteThis makes me sad and I really want another newborn right about now!!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is so sweet!! We are definitely in a hard stage right now, so this made me cherish even the hard moments!! <3 Love it!
ReplyDeleteYep, hang in there momma. Everything is just a phase, so the hard stages will definitely pass! And in the meantime, that's what wine and ice cream are for! Haha.
DeleteI think it's hilarious when little ones mimic things bloggers do. It's like oh yea, you're a blogger's kid for sure.
ReplyDeleteI love these sweet little moments! Good job for writing them down because they are so easy to forget. That's a great idea to put a sleeping bag in your room! I'm going to have to copy that one :)
ReplyDeleteMy list would go on and on and on. Sometimes I feel so melancholy that my girls are getting bigger. Last night I walked in to give Hadley one more kiss goodnight, and I found her asleep with a unicorn hat on (one that Sadie wore for Halloween last year). I roared with laughter seeing my sleeping girl with that on her head. That kind of stuff. This is the sweetest post and I'm glad I read it today!
ReplyDeleteHow cute are those raspberry fingers and the little sleeping bag? So many bittersweet moments, my girl is only 4 months and I'm already missing so much about when she was first born so I'm savoring every second and am prepping myself to looking forward to her talking, laughing, and helping herself to things <3
ReplyDeleteGreen Fashionista
Yes! I love this list- it makes me want to make my own. Also...raspberry fingers are the best.
ReplyDeleteYes, yes they are! And you should totally make a list! This link up is going to be monthly so you can always join next month!
DeleteAwe those little details are just so precious. I love that Olivia picks out her own outfit, how cute. Those raspberry fingers are adorable. I remember when I used to sneak into my moms room in the middle of the night. I would sleep at the foot of her bed, on the floor, being extra cautious never to wake her lol.
ReplyDeleteAww this is so sweet! I love that Jacob isn't a morning person and wears sunglasses & that Olivia lays her clothes out! xo, Biana -BlovedBoston
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